WHY YOUR NAN WAS RIGHT ABOUT MARRIAGE...
- Mark Wasley
- 6 days ago
- 3 min read
....and why Gorcott is the modern fairytale.
They say “mother knows best” – but when it comes to love and marriage, Nan might just take the crown. With her pearls of wisdom, stories from a simpler time, and strong opinions on everything from wedding cake flavours to suitable honeymoon attire, she’s basically the original relationship guru.
So, in honour of all the fabulous Nans out there, we’re taking a look at some classic marriage advice passed down through generations – and giving it a modern twist, Gorcott Hall-style.

"Start as you mean to go on"
Translation: Make your wedding day a true reflection of who you are as a couple. Whether you’re foodies, festival lovers, or partial to a prosecco tower, the vibe you create on day one sets the tone for the rest of your life together.
At Gorcott, we’re all about helping couples start strong, with relaxed elegance, great food, heartfelt moments, and plenty of joy. Think sparkling chandelier lit barn, romantic gardens, and the freedom to make the day totally yours. Start how you mean to go on – in style.

“Don’t go to bed on an argument.”
…But if you do, make sure it’s about something important (like whose turn it is to walk the dog). Marriage isn’t about never disagreeing – it’s about choosing each other, even when someone’s snoring and the dishwasher has been loaded “wrong”.
We’ve seen hundreds of couples begin their journey at Gorcott Hall, and here’s the thing: laughter, kindness, and good communication always win. Oh, and a midnight snack helps too.

“A stitch in time saves nine.”
Whether Nan was talking about mending trousers or managing expectations with the in-laws, the message is the same: sort the small stuff before it becomes big stuff.
That’s why we have a dedicated, experienced team who are there with you every step of the way. From your first show-round to the last dance, we help you plan, prep, and pull off your perfect day – no drama, no disasters, and definitely no stitching on the morning of the wedding.

“The way to someone’s heart is through their stomach.”
Wise words. Which is why we have a dedicated chef, Matt, who knows exactly how to win over every guest – from your fussy cousin to your dad who just wants a “proper pudding”. Great food? Sorted. Happy hearts (and full bellies)? Guaranteed.

“Marriage isn’t 50/50 – it’s 100/100.”
We like this one. Marriage is about showing up for each other every day. It’s about dancing in the kitchen, binge-watching box sets, tackling life’s curveballs… and still holding hands in the supermarket 20 years later.
Gorcott Hall might not be in a fairytale book, but it’s definitely where real love stories begin. And that, dear Nan, is something we think you’d be proud of.
So, whether you're taking inspiration from your grandparents’ love story or writing your own chapter from scratch, just know this: Gorcott Hall is here for it all. The timeless romance. The big laughs. The moments you’ll tell your grandkids about one day.

Ready to start your modern fairytale?
Book a show-round, bring your Nan (she’ll love the gardens and the history, but most of all being part of your plans), and let’s create something beautiful together.